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Nowadays in many families the grandparents are responsible for bringing up children. Is it a good or bad development for grandparents? Give your own opinion and examples. In recent years in some families grandparents are taking care of their grandchildren. This is due to the hectic pace of life which has led to the time limitation most of the parents have. Many are There are a lot of people of the opinion that it is the responsibility of a mother to bring up her child/children while it is disagreed recommended by some others that parents can ask for help or take the whole responsibility to a grandparents. This essay will discuss the advantages and disadvantages of this issue. with the reasons authors idea will be shared. I personally believe that this is not a good task for grandparents to take care of their grandchildren because in most cases they are suffering from different kinds of weaknesses and illnesses and it is not really fair to expect them to raise our children. In addition to this, as in most cases grandparents are over 60 years old, they cannot handle their daily chores by themselves and such duties not only do not make their condition better, but it aggravates it (make their situation worse.) While the responsibility of bringing up the children is handed over to their grandparents, mothers can return to their career after a few days she gave birth to her baby and this is an advantage from a professional point of view. According to UNHC more than 65% of mothers in U.S have has lost their job after they gave birth to their babies. If mothers do not have the stress of losing their job, they do not feel any fear of pregnancy and this itself can boost the birth rate, the exact thing we need in developed countries. But the other side of the coin is that the children who are brought up by someone except their real mothers will face a lot of emotional problems and mental disorders. Psychologists believe that that it is of paramount importance that mothers take care of their children by themselves to avoid such issues. It is highly recommended that children should be hugged and hear their mother heart up to the age 5 or most probably they will face the problems mentioned earlier. In conclusion, I can say that I am strongly against the idea of giving the responsibility of raising grandchildren by grandparents. There are a lot of researches and statistics that those who are brought up by anyone but not their parents would encounter with a lot of disorder and failure in their adulthood