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In modern era, parents learn from children more than children from parents. Due to psychological studies, the attitudes toward children have undergone changes. Psychologists have suggested that the child is not the small size of an adult. In fact, he is a separate entity which has its own specific cognition, so it turns the upbringing process into a mutual relationship. I personally believe that children will learn social norms and science anyway, but this it is adults who need children to remind them about the simple stuff affairs/issues having been forgotten and making our life more enjoyable. In the following paragraphs, I will elaborate on my arguments. First, the most common feature of children is their curiosity. They ask questions about everything. This characteristic teaches us to experience everything in a way that it seems it is the first time we face them. As a result, we can always find something new to be excited about. Besides, unfortunately, adults hold back their feelings which leads to insecure relationships, since we do not have true recognition of how to behave toward individuals. On the contrary, not hiding their feelings and being honest about them, children can interact with everybody more easily and without with less conflict. Second, the young generation is the example of “live in the moment”. They are neither worried about the future nor devastated by the past. They just focus on today and the experiences they are gaining. In addition, children’s thoughts are empty of any frames or structures. This privilege gives them this opportunity to observe issues without being influenced by stereotypes. Last but not least, without a doubt, our life and personality depend on the things/objects we got involved in during our childhood. The young generation and next ones grow with technology and it is no exaggeration to say that they are born with it, so they can use digital devices intellectually undemanding. Accordingly, Parents will need their children’s help to cope with the digital life, and therefore the place of family members is reversed. To conclude, according to psychological research, parents considering their child an independent person who has his own mindset and encouraging him to discuss might be more hopeful to learn things from their offspring which have been forgotten in adult life, as well as having healthy children in terms of mentality. To this end, we should let kids express themselves and not ignore them.